Received Oct 29; Accepted May
What would humans be like if we never became emotional, if we were capable of controlling emotions at all times? Perhaps we would be like Mr. Spock on Star Trek, as his responses to all situations seem to be purely logical, never emotional. We feel love, joy, happiness, guilt, anger, disappointment, fear, etc.
Sometimes our emotions are pleasant to experience and sometimes not.
For example, if we falsely believe that God is not in control of the circumstances of our lives, we may experience the emotions of fear or despair or anger based on that false belief. Regardless, emotions are powerful and real to the one feeling them.
And emotions can be helpful indicators of what is going on in our hearts. That being said, it is important that we learn about managing emotions rather than allowing our emotions to manage us. For example, when we feel angry, it is important to be able to stop, identify that we are angry, examine our hearts to determine why we are angry, and then proceed in a biblical manner.
Out-of-control emotions tend not to produce God-honoring results: Our emotions, like our minds and bodies, are influenced greatly by the fall of mankind into sin. In other words, our emotions are tainted by our sin nature, and that is why they need controlling.
If we recognize our emotions and bring them to God, we can then submit our hearts to Him and allow Him to do His work in our hearts and direct our actions. At times, this may mean God simply comforts us, reassures us, and reminds us we need not fear.
Other times, He may prompt us to forgive or to ask for forgiveness. The psalms are an excellent example of managing emotions and bringing our emotions to God.
Many psalms are filled with raw emotion, but the emotion is poured out to God in an attempt to seek His truth and righteousness. Sharing our feelings with others is also helpful in managing emotions.
The Christian life is not meant to be lived alone.
God has given us the gift of other believers who can share our burdens and whose burdens we share Romans 12; Galatians 6: When we are feeling discouraged or afraid, we can benefit from the encouragement, exhortationand reassurance other believers provide.
Often, when we encourage others, we ourselves are encouraged. Likewise, when we are joyful, our joy usually increases when we share it. Allowing our emotions to control us is not godly. Denying or vilifying our emotions is not godly, either.
We should thank God for our ability to feel emotion and steward our emotions as a gift from God. The way to manage our emotions is to grow in our walk with God.
We are transformed through the renewal of our minds Romans We should seek to know more of God and share more of our hearts with God through prayer.
Christian fellowship is another important part of spiritual growth. We journey with fellow believers and help one another grow in faith as well as in emotional maturity.Jun 10, · Recent experimental studies show that emotions can have a significant effect on the way we think, decide, and solve problems.
This paper presents a series of four experiments on how emotions affect logical reasoning. We should thank God for our ability to feel emotion and steward our emotions as a gift from God. The way to manage our emotions is to grow in our walk with God.
We are transformed through the renewal of our minds (Romans –2) and the power of the Holy Spirit—the One who produces in us self-control (Galatians ). One side of this debate could be that if you do not wish to vote for any of the candidates on your ballot, then you should not be forced to place your vote for a random close your eyes and point choice.
Within each construct of the Mixed Model of EI, Goleman included a set of emotional competencies that are not innate talents or personality characteristics, but rather capabilities that can be learned and developed to achieve new levels of performance.
Emotional Intelligence: The Ability Model While the concept of EI (the knowledge of, and ability, to influence emotions of others, as well as yourself) may sound relatively straightforward, there's actually quite a lot of debate among researchers and scholars as to .
Jun 10, · The reason for why no effect was found in Experiments 1 and 2 might be that the material was not as personally relevant and therefore did not trigger sufficient emotions for an effect to show.
This does not explain why in Experiments 2 and 4 best performance was with negative content.